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Jane Austen’s works are celebrated as literary classics, revered not only for their wit and insight into human nature but also for their sharp critique of societal norms. However, in recent years, intellectual conversations about Austen's novels have become increasingly difficult. The root of this challenge? The proliferation of adaptations that have redefined how modern audiences engage with Austen's works.
In the past, readers of Jane Austen could delve into her novels and explore their deeper themes—issues of class, marriage, gender, and social expectation—without the haze of modern interpretations clouding their understanding. Today, however, many people come to Austen’s novels with a preconceived notion rooted in the countless adaptations of her stories. These films, TV shows, and other media often reduce her complex social commentary to a mere backdrop for romantic plots, leaving little room for nuanced discussions of her work. The heart of the problem is simple: adaptations are not Jane Austen’s work. They are creative reinterpretations, or, more accurately, fan fiction.
The adaptations that saturate popular culture—whether it’s the beloved 1995 Pride and Prejudice miniseries or the countless modern-day takes—are not crafted by Jane Austen herself. They are works produced by directors, writers, and actors who take her characters and settings, then reframe them through a contemporary lens. As such, these adaptations are akin to fan fiction. They reimagine Austen’s world and often place emphasis on romance, often overlooking the satire, social critique, and exploration of human flaws that were central to her original texts.
One of the major issues with these adaptations is that they present a simplified, sanitized version of Austen's novels, which reflects the modern desire for escapism. Romance, particularly the idealized kind, has become the focal point of the conversation. In these adaptations, Elizabeth Bennet and Mr. Darcy are often viewed as the quintessential romantic couple, leaving viewers with the impression that Austen’s work is primarily about love. The problem is that this interpretation completely neglects the sharper critiques of societal norms, the complex characterizations, and the personal growth that Austen so masterfully weaves into her narratives.
This has led to a widespread misunderstanding about what Jane Austen was actually writing. The dominant narrative around her novels now centers on the notion that they are romantic comedies, when in fact, they are astute social commentaries that challenge norms and expose the complexities of human nature. Modern audiences who are more familiar with the romanticized versions of Austen’s works—thanks to the adaptations—may find it difficult to engage with the full scope of her writing. The deeper, more intellectual discussions about class, marriage, and gender roles are often lost in the shuffle of romantic fantasy.
The impact of this trend is far-reaching. Book clubs, academic discussions, and online conversations about Austen’s works are frequently dominated by those who only recognize her stories through the lens of popular adaptations. As a result, the opportunity for deeper exploration of her critique of society is reduced, and those who seek to engage with her works on an intellectual level often find themselves in opposition to those who are invested in the romanticized versions of her stories. This divide has created a rift where Austen’s true voice—the voice that critiques societal expectations and exposes the limits of romantic love—gets drowned out by a mass audience that is more enamored with the fantasy.
It’s important to understand that while these adaptations can be enjoyable and insightful in their own right, they cannot be considered Jane Austen’s true works. They are interpretations, reflections of the source material created by modern creators who are often more interested in crafting a romanticized vision of Austen’s world than in faithfully preserving the complexities of her novels. While adaptations can certainly bring Austen’s characters to life in a new way, they should be viewed as separate from her original texts—similar to fan fiction that takes beloved characters and reimagines them.
For those who truly wish to understand Jane Austen's works in their fullest sense, it’s crucial to read the novels themselves without the filter of the modern adaptations. To dive into Pride and Prejudice, Sense and Sensibility, or Emma without expecting a tidy romantic narrative is to unlock the full potential of Austen’s social commentary. Austen’s novels are not just about love—they are about how love fits into a much larger framework of social expectations, personal growth, and moral integrity.
At the end of the day, the real challenge is not only recognizing the distinction between Austen's work and the adaptations but also carving out space for more thoughtful, intellectual conversations about her novels. Only then can we truly appreciate the genius of her writing, which remains as relevant today as it was over two centuries ago.
The Pattern of Older Siblings
Being Overshadowed by Younger Ones
Jane Austen frequently explores the dynamic of
older siblings being overshadowed by younger ones, using it to reveal deeper
insights into family dynamics, societal expectations, and individual character
development.
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Elinor vs.
Marianne Dashwood
Elinor, the elder Dashwood sister, embodies sense, rationality, and emotional
restraint. In contrast, Marianne’s passionate, dramatic personality often takes
centre stage, overshadowing Elinor’s personality. Despite Elinor’s reliability
and wisdom, she is forced to give way to Marianne’s impetuous actions that
drive much of the narrative and attract the most attention. Their mother's
insistence that Elinor not try to correct her younger sister turns her into
an enabler for her sister's poor behaviour.
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Anne vs. Lucy
Steele
Anne Steele, though older, is overshadowed by her younger sister Lucy, whose
cunning and manipulative nature gives her a calculated charm, a semblance of
good manners, and the appearance of intelligence when compared with Anne’s
silliness and inappropriate conversation. Anne's reliance on Lucy's
stubbornness and cunning to be accepted into other's company also makes her
and enabler to her sister's ways.
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Lady Middleton
vs. Charlotte Palmer
Lady Middleton’s composed and decorous demeanour is overshadowed by her younger
sister Charlotte Palmer’s lively, talkative personality. While Lady Middleton
adheres to social propriety, Charlotte’s vivacious nature draws more notice
from the characters and readers alike. Charlotte's friendliness only adds to
the image of her sister's coldness.
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Edward vs.
Robert Ferrars
Edward Ferrars, the elder brother, is well-mannered and reserved, while Robert
Ferrars is superficial and self-absorbed. Despite Edward being the more
principled sibling, Robert’s arrogance and superficial charm often garner
attention especially from their mother and sister.
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Anne vs. Mary
Elliot
Anne, the middle daughter, is overshadowed by her younger sister Mary, whose self-centred
and dramatic tendencies draw more attention. Despite Anne’s thoughtfulness and
intelligence, Mary’s constant craving for attention and need for validation
often places her at the forefront of social interactions. Anne's tendency to
allow herself to fade into the background also makes her an enabler for
Mary's stronger personality.
·
Henrietta vs.
Louisa Musgrave
Henrietta Musgrave, though older, is overshadowed by her livelier sister
Louisa. Louisa’s flirtatious and spirited nature makes her more noticeable,
while Henrietta’s quieter disposition places her in the background of the
narrative.
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Jane vs.
Elizabeth Bennet
Jane, the eldest Bennet sister, is often overshadowed by Elizabeth’s wit and
liveliness. Elizabeth’s outspoken and confident nature positions her as the
protagonist, while Jane’s reserved and gentle demeanour makes her less
prominent despite her beauty. She may the first sister noticed, but her single
state shows that her suitors don't stay long enough to follow through. It's
possible that her insistence on seeing only the good in people and the world is
what enables Elizabeth to justify her quick, and often
negative, opinions of people.
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Catherine vs.
Lydia Bennet
Catherine ("Kitty") is often overshadowed by her younger sister
Lydia, whose bold and reckless behaviour disrupts the family. Kitty’s more
subdued personality is overshadowed by Lydia’s dramatic actions. The neglect
and abuse Catherine receives from her family causes her to fade into the
background and—with her mother's favouritism towards Lydia—turns Kitty into
an enabler.
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Caroline vs.
Louisa Bingley
Though it is never explicitly stated, Austen's patterns and the fact that
Louisa is already married imply that Caroline Bingley is the younger sister.
Caroline’s sharp tongue and competitive nature draw more attention than
Louisa’s quieter, more reserved presence. At the same time, Louisa is also a
proactive enabler for her sister's poor behaviour.
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Mrs. Bennet
vs. Mrs. Philips
While, like the above siblings, it is never explicitly stated that Mrs. Bennet
is younger than her sister Mrs. Philips, her more prominent and memorable
character—due to her excitable and dramatic personality—show that they have
been meant as a parallel to the above and would also mean that Mrs. Bennet's favouritism
may have been a learned behaviour.
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Lady Catherine
vs. Lady Anne
Again, it is never explicitly stated that Lady Catherine is the younger sister
of Lady Anne (Darcy’s mother). However, Lady Catherine’s domineering nature and
absurd arrogance, making her a more noticeable figure in the story, could fit
this pattern. If we assume Fitzwilliam's reserve and/or Georgiana's timidity to
be reflections of their parent's natures, then Lady Anne would likely have been
overshadowed by Lady Catherine. This would mean that Lady Anne's part in the
plan to have Darcy marry Anne might have been nothing more than her being
subdued by her sister's strength of character.
The
Pattern of Older Siblings with Eccentricities that Highlight the Younger
Siblings’ Normalcy
Jane Austen also explores another sibling dynamic where older siblings with
strong or eccentric personalities serve to highlight the more composed or
responsible nature of their younger siblings. This dynamic, while less
prevalent, provides further insight into Austen's nuanced portrayal of family
relationships and individual growth. Some of these pairings overlap with those
above as the younger siblings are not only of a stronger character, but the
older siblings are made to look foolish to benefit the image of the younger.
Sense
and Sensibility
Northanger
Abbey
Persuasion
Mansfield
Park
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Tom and Edmund Bertram
Tom Bertram’s reckless, indulgent lifestyle serves to highlight Edmund’s more steady
and responsible behaviour. Tom’s irresponsibility positions Edmund as the more
admirable and reliable brother.
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Maria and Julia Bertram
Maria’s entitlement and ambition overshadow Julia’s relatively milder flaws.
Julia’s less dramatic nature positions her as the more tolerable of the two
sisters, even though both lack morals. Julia’s elopement with John Yates is
only overlooked as the repercussions of her poor decision pale in comparison
with her sister’s.
Emma
Pride
and Prejudice
Through these sibling dynamics, Austen reveals her keen insight into familial relationships and individual character development. The recurring patterns—whether a younger sibling overshadows an elder or an elder sibling’s eccentricities highlight a younger one’s virtues—encourage readers to explore the complexities of sibling roles, societal expectations, and personal growth within her novels. These patterns also prompt reflection on Austen’s own life, particularly her relationship with her sister Cassandra. While their surviving letters provide glimpses into their bond, it remains unclear whether their closeness stemmed from a deep mutual understanding and affection for each other’s nature or simply from the circumstances of familial duty and shared proximity.
The clearest case of age themes is in Persuasion, where the dates of birth for the four Elliott children are listed. Elizabeth was born in 1785, Anne in 1787, a stillborn son in 1789, and Mary in 1791. This shows a consistent two-year gap between the living siblings (Chapter 1).
Similarly, Sophie Croft is 38 years old, while her younger brother Frederick is 31, showing a seven-year age gap (Chapter 4). However, the age of their brother Edward is not mentioned, as he is only a background character briefly mentioned in the story. This reflects Austen’s tendency to omit ages for minor characters, as seen with the older Price brothers, John and Richard, in Mansfield Park. While the younger Price siblings' ages are explicitly given, John and Richard’s are not, underscoring their lesser importance to the story.
In Sense and Sensibility, the Dashwood sisters are introduced as being 19, 16, and 13 years old at the beginning of the story (Chapter 1). By December of the same year, after their father’s death, they are 20, 17, and 14. This reveals a consistent three-year age gap between the sisters.
Lady Middleton is 26 or 27 years old, while her younger sister Charlotte Palmer is the same age as Miss Dashwood. By the new year, Lady Middleton is 27, and Charlotte is 20, creating a seven-year difference between the siblings (Chapter 6).
Similarly, the Steele sisters follow the pattern. Lucy is 29 or 30, while Anne is 22 or 23, demonstrating another seven-year age gap (Chapter 21).
In Emma, Emma Woodhouse is 21 years old, while her older sister Isabella is 28, showing a seven-year gap (Chapter 8). George Knightley is 37 or 38 years old, while his younger brother John is 31 (Chapter 12). Isabella and John Knightley, meanwhile, have a three-year age difference and have been married for seven years (Chapter 11).
Notably, the only characters whose birthdays and exact ages are mentioned in this novel are Harriet Smith and Robert Martin. This detail suggests that Harriet and Robert are intended as the true heroine and hero of the story, contrasting with Emma and George Knightley, the anti-heroine and anti-hero.
Pride and Prejudice is fascinating in how it incorporates Jane Austen’s themes, including age gaps, while also presenting some exceptions. Jane Bennet is introduced as being 22 years old, and in the second week of May, Lydia mentions that Jane is "almost three-and-twenty" (Chapter 39). This suggests she will turn 23 during the second year of the story. Similarly, Elizabeth tells Lady Catherine in April that she is "not yet one-and-twenty" (Chapter 56). This establishes a two-year difference between Jane and Elizabeth.
Catherine (Kitty) is introduced as being 17, while Lydia is 15. Lydia turns 16 in June, just before eloping with Mr. Wickham (Chapter 47). Since it is stated that there are two years between them, Kitty must turn 18 in the following year, although her exact birthday is never mentioned.
However, Mary Bennet’s age is never stated, making her an enigma. There are three years between Elizabeth and Kitty, so Mary does not fit the usual mold. This is similar to the Bertram siblings in Mansfield Park, where there is only one year between Tom and Edmund but four years between Edmund and Maria, who is followed by Julia a year later. In both cases, the timelines fit within the broader patterns of sibling relationships in Austen’s works, even if the specific gaps are not consistent.
Mary is neither a background character, like the older Price brothers in Mansfield Park, nor central to the story, yet she receives little narrative focus. Her existence primarily highlights the selfishness and lack of empathy shown by all four of her sisters. While many readers see Mary as a pedantic, annoying character, her portrayal reveals her neglect and the verbal abuse she endures from her family. Even Jane and Elizabeth, often seen as kind and virtuous, are guilty of mistreating Mary.
Mary’s role allows Austen to explore the flaws in the Bennet family, showing that even the most admired characters, Jane and Elizabeth, are not without fault. This contrasts with the common view of Mary as merely a comic figure or a foil to her more outgoing sisters. The most interesting thing is that she otherwise adds little to the story and can be removed without creating any change to the storyline.
One of the most striking aspects of Pride and Prejudice is how Austen builds multiple characters from the same base archetype. This can be seen when cross-referencing her other works as well, but in P&P, we have five variations of the same foundational character in one story: Mrs. Bennet, Elizabeth Bennet, Lydia Bennet, Caroline Bingley, and Lady Catherine de Bourgh.
If you struggle to see the similarities between Elizabeth, Lydia, and Mrs. Bennet, it may be harder to recognize this pattern. However, Austen uses status, wealth, education, and the influences of nature (environment) and nurture (family position) to transform a single archetype into distinct personalities.
For example, Mrs. Bennet’s "mean understanding" is not what many think as meaning "low" as when her intelligence is compared to that of other characters (minus Mr. Bennet, Elizabeth, and Mr. Darcy) her intellect is on par with them which shows that the "mean" here means "average". While the assumed "low understanding" which is hinted at is actually more fitting as a description for Lydia. In fact, most of what is assumed of Mrs. Bennet's character introduction is a crude and harsh view of her that sadly fit her youngest daughter much better. Elizabeth’s wit and independence emerge from her sharper intellect and slightly higher status as the favored daughter of her sarcastic and witty father; however, she also shares her liveliness and poor manners with her mother and youngest sister. Caroline Bingley’s snobbery and high-handedness was shaped by her wealth and education while Lady Catherine’s domineering nature and haughty dignity is shaped by her by her wealth and social standing.
While I will explore these characters in greater detail in a future post, I encourage you to examine their similarities and differences. Consider how Austen uses status, wealth, education, environment, and familial dynamics to create distinct yet interconnected characters. Look for how these traits influence their actions, relationships, and the roles they play in the story.
Many believe the Bennet family in Pride and Prejudice was "poor," but this is a misconception. It depends on how one defines "poor." If you mean the Bennets had a low income, that is incorrect. If, however, you refer to a lack of savings, that may be true, though debatable given Mr. Bennet's secretive nature.
It’s plausible, though not confirmed, that Mr. Bennet may have saved money without his family knowing. This possibility might come into play during marriage negotiations for Jane and Elizabeth, as any personal savings could remain undisclosed in their official dowries. Although there’s no way to confirm this in the text, it is implied that the Bennets live within their means, and indeed, it would be hard for them to overspend.
With an income of £2,000 per year, the Bennets are relatively well-off. For context, the average estate income in the 1790s was around £600 to £700 annually. While I can’t locate my source for this at the moment, it is findable with some research. Austen's only mention of an average estate income in her novels is Combe Magna, owned by John Willoughby in Sense and Sensibility. Longbourn’s income, however, is more than double the average for estate earnings at the time, so the Bennets were by no means poor.
For a better understanding of what this income would mean for their lifestyle, refer to A New System of Practical Domestic Economy (Henry Colburn & Co., 3rd Edition, 1823). On page 405 (PDF version), you’ll find expense guidelines for various income ranges. The book divides expenses into three parts based on annual income: part I (from pg. 405) has incomes under £100, part II (from pg. 431) has incomes between £100-£750, and part III (from pg. 443) has incomes between £1,000-£5,000. For the Bennets' approximate income, see pages 452 and 453, and for a higher income level of £4,000, see pages 456 and 457. Comparing these entries offers insight into the Bennets' lifestyle compared to other Austen families, like the Dashwoods.
The book provides the information that the costs for children are the assumed costs of adult children which means that expenses would be lower, and savings higher, before their birth and for several years after. It also list the number of servants, carriages, etc.
For Jane Austen fan fiction (JAFF) writers, these resources also reveal period-appropriate costs for essentials like food, candles, soap, and luxuries, such as servants, wardrobes, and education. This insight into domestic economics provides a valuable foundation for accurately understanding or writing about characters in Austen’s time.
The Trifecta
While I believe I’ve now addressed the theme of first impressions as just one aspect of getting to know someone, there’s another important theme in Pride and Prejudice that I’d like to explore: the trifecta for the perfect spouse.
The trifecta refers to the three qualities consistently highlighted in Austen’s novels as essential in choosing a partner—qualities that were valued then and are still often sought after today: wealth, status, and education.
Wealth
Wealth played a significant role in raising one’s social position, as seen with the Bingley family. Contrary to Caroline Bingley’s beliefs, their family is lower in society than the Bennets and many of their neighbors. However, their wealth allows Caroline and her brother to aim for marriages above their station (though attempting to marry a Darcy is reaching too high, as neither Darcy nor his sister need the fortune). Caroline would be more likely to marry a man of Mr. Bennet’s or Mr. Collins’s station, a titled commoner (such as a knight or baronet), or a nobleman in need of her dowry. However, her dowry is not impressive enough to attract a nobleman unless he is either desperate or debauched, especially given her tradesman background unless there was love or a personal attraction to her person.
Sophia Grey in Sense and Sensibility has a substantial dowry of £50,000, which is implied to be from trade. As she lives with "her guardians," it’s likely that her parents have passed on, and this sum is all the wealth she will ever have. On the other hand, Georgiana Darcy and Emma Woodhouse each have £30,000. Georgiana, however, comes from a wealthy estate and has aristocratic connections, being the granddaughter of an earl. Emma is one of only two children from a small but wealthy estate. As Austen writes in Emma, “The landed property of Hartfield certainly was inconsiderable, being but a sort of notch in the Donwell Abbey estate, to which all the rest of Highbury belonged; but their fortune, from other sources, was such as to make them scarcely secondary to Donwell Abbey itself, in every other kind of consequence.”
Mary Crawford’s £20,000 in Mansfield Park seems substantial, but this sum may include additional inheritances she received after the death of her parents. Mary Edwards, in The Watsons, has a dowry of £10,000, and though this may seem modest, being an only child means she stands to inherit even more, such as her family’s house in town and her mother’s dowry upon her passing.
Dowries were not the only financial consideration in marriage. Many men married women who were expected to inherit estates or money upon the death of their relatives. If a gentlewoman by birth had only one brother who was still unmarried or without children and the estate was not entailed to heirs male, she also had a good chance of marrying well as there was some hope of her inheriting should her brother not produce an heir (similar to the expectations General Tilney has for Catharine to potentially inherit the Allens estate or fortune even at the end of Northanger Abbey.)
Miss Bingley has a £20,000 dowry, but a potential suitor cannot expect more unless he believes her brother will generously support her husband financially. By contrast, if Jane Bennet were to inherit Longbourn, an estate valued at £2,000 per annum (double the average estate income of around £6-700 per annum in the 1790s), she would be quite an heiress. Longbourn would equate to a dowry of around £30-40,000, making Jane a prime candidate to marry into the nobility. Though many of the dowries mentioned in Austen’s novels are high, they were not the norm, and social status played an even bigger role in most noble marriages. The lower your status, the higher your dowry should be to marry well.
Status
Status in Jane Austen's novels encompasses not only an individual’s position in society but also their connections. Mr. Darcy, despite being a gentleman farmer like Mr. Bennet, belongs to a higher social echelon due to the vast income of his estate, placing him in the top 10% or higher of society. Although Darcy lacks a title, his family’s wealth and connections allow him to marry into nobility, as his father did by marrying Lady Anne Fitzwilliam, the daughter of an earl. While this gives him access to prestigious social circles, Darcy himself has no direct claim to any title, being descended from the female line.
In fact, the real Fitzwilliam earldom of that period was heavily mortgaged, and the 4th earl had to sell smaller estates to pay off debts. Of the four sisters who lived to adulthood, only one is known to have married. This suggests that Austen’s Lady Anne Fitzwilliam and her sister Catherine, who married commoners, may have done so due to a lack of dowries, with their husbands valuing their connections more than wealth.
In contrast, the Bingley family lacks both status and connections, further reducing Caroline Bingley’s chances of marrying someone like Darcy. The Bingleys can only claim connections through Mr. Hurst, and while Darcy is a close friend, this does not extend to Bingley’s family.
The Bennets are at a similar disadvantage, having few notable connections. They are linked to an uncle who is a solicitor in Meryton and another involved in trade. However, a solicitor or attorney was still considered a respectable position for the younger son of a gentleman, on par with being a clergyman or an officer in the army. It’s likely that Mr. Gardiner and Mr. Philips, though involved in trade, came from gentry backgrounds. Tradespeople could raise their children to gentry status by sending sons to university or securing apprenticeships. This means the Bennets might have distant, though still relevant, connections to other landed families.
Given that Mr. Gardiner provided Mrs. Bennet with a dowry of £4,000, it’s reasonable to assume he was financially stable and likely provided a gentleman’s education for his son, Mr. Edward Gardiner. Such wealth suggests that the family had some inherited money, and Mr. Gardiner himself may have been the younger son of a good family. Even though Edward Gardiner chose to enter trade, this was not uncommon for younger sons seeking to make their fortune. The clergy and army, though genteel, didn’t provide much wealth, and the navy was risky. Many families, such as the Eltons and Barings, continued to profit from trade even after acquiring landed estates, welcoming successful traders back into the fold.
The Netherfield party’s disdain for the Bennets due to their trade connections seems unfounded. It’s possible that Caroline Bingley’s comments are more malicious than they appear. Repeating negative remarks about a subject the listeners undervalue could subtly manipulate them, fostering insecurities. People often accept repeated statements without question if they don’t care enough to challenge them. Despite Caroline’s claims being largely false, her audience may passively accept them due to a lack of attention or interest.
Education
Education, the third component of the trifecta, plays a pivotal role in how Austen’s characters view their societal worth. Caroline Bingley, for example, frequently boasts about her superior education compared to the Bennet sisters, having attended a seminary. However, this boast underscores her misunderstanding of the societal norms regarding education in that era.
For men, formal education was crucial. Attending university, even without the expectation of graduating, was a status symbol. It demonstrated that a man had the financial means (wealth), family legacy (good breeding), or sponsorship (connections) to afford such an education. This was integral to being recognized as a well-educated gentleman.
Women’s education, however, followed a different path. Most young women from gentle families were educated at home. Seminaries and schools were more common for daughters of the lower gentry, who sought to “refine” their daughters rather than provide them with a robust education. Thus, Miss Bingley’s attendance at a seminary didn’t automatically make her superior to the Bennet sisters, who, raised on an estate, would have learned skills that Caroline, with her seminary training, likely lacked.
For example, while Caroline could probably set a fine table, she would not have acquired the practical knowledge needed to manage a large estate, such as tending to tenants, overseeing still rooms, and fulfilling duties to parishioners. She aspires to be the wife of Mr. Darcy, a wealthy landowner, but she seems unaware of the responsibilities such a role would entail. Her education better suits her to marry a tradesman or a politician who lives exclusively in town, rather than the wife of a landed gentleman who must manage both household and estate affairs.
On the other hand, the Bennet girls, who did not attend a seminary, have no reason to feel embarrassed. It wasn’t uncommon for women to be educated at home, especially in a family with five daughters where hiring a governess would likely be cheaper than sending them all to school. Hiring a governess would have been the more typical arrangement for wealthier families, but the Bennet's situation wasn’t unheard of, especially in a rural setting. Lady Catherine’s criticism of Mrs. Bennet educating her daughters likely reflects her own experience as the daughter of a peer receiving an education not at a school or seminary but at home from a governess and tutors. There may also have been an assumption that a woman with a background in “trade” could not adequately teach her children if they were raised as gentlewomen. However, basic reading, writing, and arithmetic were often taught by nurses or other staff before governesses even came to take over their education. In country homes or smaller estates, mothers might frequently take on the role of teacher for their children, especially if neighboring families did the same.
Caroline Bingley’s condescending attitude toward the Bennet family regarding education ultimately highlights her own lack of understanding about what truly constitutes a well-rounded and suitable education for women of their social standing.
Conclusion
The trifecta of wealth, status, and education plays a significant role in all of Austen’s novels, but perhaps none more so than in Pride and Prejudice. These three attributes not only shape how characters view themselves and others but also influence their decisions regarding marriage and societal standing. Throughout my analysis of Pride and Prejudice, I will frequently refer to these factors as they are essential to understanding the characters and plot.
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Notes: Real-life examples of large dowries provide context to the importance of wealth in securing advantageous marriages during this period. Anne Johnson, the daughter and only surviving child of a tradesman and shipowner, married an earl in 1711 with a dowry of £60,000. Similarly, Mary Liddell, the daughter of an estate owner and great-granddaughter of a baronet, brought £60,000 and her father's estates into her marriage with a marquess in 1752. Jane Owen, another example, married a viscount in 1731 also with a dowry of £60,000 though she later married a Welsh gentleman after the death of her first husband. These women demonstrate how large dowries could elevate a family’s status through marriage into the nobility.
Smaller dowries could still offer significant opportunities. Sarah Price, the daughter of a colonel and landowner in Jamaica, had £5,000 for her dowry, while Catherine Shorter, the daughter of a wealthy merchant whose father--another merchant--had served as Mayor of London, married an earl in 1700 with only £20,000—a sum that meant a lot more 100 years before P&P takes place. Anne Tylney, the daughter of a gentleman and parliamentarian, married a baron in 1721 while brining £4,000 per annum into her marriage. These real-world examples mirror Austen’s depictions, where wealth, status, and connections were critical factors in securing marriages and improving social rank.
However, even exceptional dowries could not always guarantee a successful marriage. Some women, like the infamous Lady Worsley with her reported £70,000, married far below what they might have been able to expect, sometimes to their own detriment. This highlights the risks and complexities of marrying for wealth and status, a theme Austen frequently explores.
In Pride and Prejudice, as in life, wealth, status, and education are not merely individual attributes but critical components in the social dynamics of marriage and relationships. Austen masterfully weaves these elements into her narrative, making the trifecta a crucial lens through which her characters' motives and decisions can be better understood.
Due to my ADHD and my changeable nature, my train of thought tends to jump around, and forcing myself to focus on one topic often leads to avoiding it entirely. So, I’ll be switching topics occasionally, as I don’t want to write these entries half-heartedly.
For those unfamiliar, the original title of Pride and Prejudice was actually First Impressions. I think it’s a shame that Jane Austen changed the title. The reason for the change isn’t entirely clear, but there are two main theories.
One theory is that she changed the title because she changed the story; however, this is unlikely. As far as we know, Austen generally stuck with the original premise of her stories, even though she edited them over many years. Moreover, the characters are shown at the end of the book to have been drastically misunderstood based on first impressions.
For example, at first glance, Lizzy appears as a loving sister and Darcy as an arrogant, proud man, while Wickham comes across as a handsome, misused hero. But by the end, it becomes clear that Elizabeth is rather resentful and vengeful, always trying to ‘get back at’ Darcy for his initial insult. Darcy, on the other hand, is more of an introvert with poor social skills, often sticking his foot in his mouth because no one has ever corrected him. Wickham turns out to be a liar, thief, and seducer of underaged and unprotected women. This transformation in character perception shows that First Impressions was indeed a fitting title.
The second theory is that Austen changed the title because, in the early 1800s, another book titled First Impressions was published under the pseudonym “A Lady.” Although this other book had illustrations of birds and nature (which may seem unrelated), the title and author being the same could have caused confusion. Out of these two options, this explanation seems the most plausible.
Regardless of the reason, Austen’s decision to change the title led many readers into a trap—the trap of sticking to their own first impressions of the characters.
Since Austen’s first published book was called Sense and Sensibility (originally titled Elinor and Marianne), readers assumed Pride and Prejudice would follow a similar pattern. We’re told from the start that Elinor represents “sense” and Marianne “sensibility,” so readers often assume Darcy represents “pride” and Elizabeth “prejudice.” Some even suggest both terms refer only to Darcy, as they prefer to overlook Elizabeth’s flaws.
However, both characters embody both pride and prejudice. By the end, readers should recognize that the issue between Darcy and Elizabeth was not caused by Darcy’s pride, but by Elizabeth’s. It was her pride that was wounded by Darcy’s insult.
Much of the confusion stems from people who claim to be Austen fans but are really fans of the adaptations. While it’s possible to love both, many “Austen fans” I’ve spoken with clearly lack knowledge of the books themselves, confusing scenes or quotes from the adaptations with the original texts.
Take the 1995 Pride and Prejudice adaptation, for example. While it’s often hailed as being “exactly like the book,” the opening scene, in which Darcy is depicted as involved in Bingley’s decision to leave, is entirely made up. In fact, given that Darcy was likely rescuing his sister at the time, it’s improbable he was even consulted. Additionally, Darcy’s lines in the first scene are based on Caroline Bingley’s words from the book, making Darcy seem pompous from the start and prejudicing viewers against him before he properly appears.
The BBC drama also paints Darcy in a bad light by having him nod along or outright agree with Miss Bingley’s rude remarks in Meryton, which never happened in the book. Darcy only agrees with her when her comments are, in fact, true—the Bennet family is often ill-behaved and vulgar, and their lack of fortune makes it difficult for them to find respectable suitors. Still, Miss Bingley and Lady Catherine also behave poorly, which Darcy overlooks, likely because he’s grown accustomed to their behavior.
Another example of misrepresentation is the assembly scene. In the show, Colin Firth as Darcy says, "I certainly shall not. In an assembly such as this? It would be insupportable.” This seems to suggest that Darcy is disdainful of the people there. However, in the book, Darcy actually says, “I certainly shall not. You know how I detest it, unless I am particularly acquainted with my partner. At such an assembly as this, it would be insupportable.” This line shows that Darcy’s issue is not with the people, but with his discomfort in dancing with strangers.
In Volume 2, we get a further glimpse into Darcy’s reluctance: “I certainly have not the talent...of conversing easily with those I have never seen before.” Elizabeth dismisses this, claiming he just needs practice, but for someone who struggles with social awkwardness, no amount of practice can change that. Yet, readers seem to accept Jane and Georgiana’s shy behavior but not Darcy’s, which is hypocritical.
Readers are often so caught up in Elizabeth’s perspective that they miss her own faults. She can be prideful, vengeful, and blind to basic manners, but she delivers her insults in a joking manner, making her seem more likable.
Now, don’t get me wrong—Elizabeth Bennet is one of my favorite characters, but I’m not blind to her flaws. She embodies many traits she despises in others, including pride and a tendency to manipulate. For example, she pushes Jane towards Mr. Bingley just as much as their mother does. Even after Bingley leaves, Elizabeth decides on all the particulars of Jane’s pursuit, disregarding her sister’s feelings.
In conclusion, Elizabeth may be a favorite, but she is far from perfect. However, these complexities are what make her such a fascinating and beloved character.